published by RelationshipsAsArt on Sun, 01/15/2012 - 21:52
Relationships As Art: The Asian Alpha Male, Dating Coach
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published by ANBM on Sat, 01/30/2010 - 11:29
By Professor Hyeouk Chris Hahm
Working with diverse immigrant populations who suffered from various mental health disorders in New York City, Professor Hyeouk Chris Hahm had a first-hand look at health disparities among Asian American communities. As a psychiatric social worker for 10 years, she saw a growing prevalence of young Asian American adults dealing with substance use and sexually transmitted disease (STDs). This led her to question the factors associated with risky health behavior patterns, as well as the protective factors of those behaviors including substance use and HIV/STDs risk behaviors among young Asian Americans.
published by ANBM on Sun, 12/20/2009 - 22:08
Some thing's are better as never said and when words are spoken people should be accountable for what they say. Given that as responsibility, it could also be seen at another angle that there is also the responsibility for not saying what needs to be said.
Much could be said about the media little racist scheme during the U.S president's visit to China to improve economic ties and collaboration between the U.S and China.
Obama was on business trying to look for ways to fix up his bankrupt economy that was left to him in the worst state.
Firstly the white media tried painting China as anti-black racists and claims China disliked "chocolate coloured skin". Though this was not something that came from the Chinese mouths it was indeed straight out the mouth of white media who thought that they could make racists statements without taking responsibility by using China as a scapegoat.
published by ANBM on Sat, 08/22/2009 - 14:58
NICHIBEI - The Nichi Bei Times’ board of directors has decided to close Northern California’s oldest
Japanese American newspaper on Sept. 30 of this year after 63 years of business. In its place, a group of Nichi Bei Times staff and community members plan to start the Nichi Bei Foundation, a separate nonprofit reincarnation of the paper.
Kenji G. Taguma, the Nichi Bei Times’ vice president and English edition editor, has pioneered plans for the new Foundation because he believes the paper is an essential voice for Japanese Americans.
“Today, I see the paper as the glue that holds the community together,” Taguma said.
Decline in circulation and advertisements were chief reasons for the decision to close the Nichi Bei Times, said Ken Abiko, board chair of the paper, whose circulation base of around 8,000 includes primarily Northern California readers.
published by ANBM on Sat, 03/28/2009 - 00:34
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published by ANBM on Mon, 03/02/2009 - 14:43
Jaemin Kim writes on racial inequality of asian women & social trends in the article 'Asian Women: Rape And Hate Crimes'
"Older, White Critics ... Missed the Boat" by making an issue of the interracial relationship in the movie Rachel Getting Married, posted Defamer.com last October. In rare form, the popular blog site -- known for mercilessly ridiculing celebrities and media players -- took a principled stance. The posting chided well-known film critics for focusing on race when reviewing the film. The critics were preoccupied with the fact that white Rachel was marrying a black man. In the film, however, the couple's ethnicities go unmentioned. And this is the way a "cultural melting pot" should be, Defamer rhapsodized.
published by ANBM on Thu, 02/19/2009 - 00:33
Interracial Marriage and the Legacy of Colonialization
By Kumiko Nemoto
Excerpted from "Race Still Matters:Popular Discourse of Interracial Marriage and Asian American Experiences"
2003
While both Asian American men and women I interviewed reported encounters with racism in various situations, the Asian American men and white women I interviewed seem to be exposed to more negative sanctions from whites than the Asian American women and white men. Sothy and Emily have not talked with Emily’s father in more than fifteen years. Kevin and Karen reported hostile reactions toward them in public.
published by ANBM on Thu, 02/19/2009 - 00:16
Refers to is "Is Love Colorblind?" by Steve Sailer
http://www.isteve.com/Articles_Interracial_Marriage.htm
Alvin wroteon February 29, 2008 at 1:05am
yeah a good read, one of the first 50 articles linked when this group was created i think.
of course love isn't colorblind, for many people it's impossible to separate race, or culture, or nationality, from stereotypes or generalizations or expectations that are racially associated
published by ANBM on Wed, 02/18/2009 - 23:59
Text version
One of the most public manifestations of race is the choice of one's partner or spouse. This very individual and personal aspect can sometimes produce a lot of public discussion. Studies consistently show that Asian Americans have some of the highest "intermarriage" (also known as "outmarriage") rates among racial/ethnic minorities -- marrying someone else outside of their own ethnic group. But as always, there's more to the story than just the headline.
The Public and Private Sides of Ethnicity
published by ANBM on Wed, 02/18/2009 - 23:37
An Economist Goes to a BarAnd solves the mysteries of dating.
By Ray Fisman
Posted Wednesday, Nov. 7, 2007, at 12:00 PM ET
When economists began broadly applying their theories of rational choice-making, love and marriage were among the first areas they colonized. Nobel Prize winner Gary Becker laid the foundations back in 1973 with his two-part article "A Theory of Marriage." Becker imagined society as an immense cocktail party with rational-minded daters searching for the most desirable partner who would have them. His analysis predicted a pattern of "positive assortative matching," where men and women of similar desirability would partner with one another.
published by ANBM on Tue, 02/10/2009 - 16:07
Authors: Kim, Helen. The passage of the 1965 Immigration Act ushered in an era marked by a massive influx of non- white immigrants to the United States. Contrary to previous waves of immigration that included primarily Europeans, the past four decades have seen a surge in non-European immigrants from Asia, Latin America, Africa, the Middle East and the Caribbean. However, while civil rights and immigration reforms have, on a legislative level, legitimated the entry of previously excluded groups to the US, social acceptance of these “new immigrants” and their children has been slow to follow. Assimilation patterns of European immigrants and their children have historically resulted in an eventual racial blending into the white majority.
published by archive (not verified) on Thu, 01/29/2009 - 08:27
“The End of White America?”
Jan 29, 2009
Dialectic
Hua Hsu of The Atlantic writes a very interesting article on social and racial trends in America. I really don’t like the title, as it’s kitsch and melodramatic, but don’t let that dissuade you from reading the piece. I really like the observations he makes on the origin of the lower-middle-class white movement in the 70s.
State of the Union January/February 2009 Atlantic
published by ANBM on Mon, 01/12/2009 - 13:24
Post
May 18, 2007 at 12:43pm
(Was passed this post, written by a hapa, in the group 'Asian Girls Who Love White Guys', which has a group pic of Bruce Lee looking pissed that doesn't fit or make sense at all except to provoke and mock Asian men)
http://mit.facebook.com/group.php?gid=2211120623
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"It is easy for white people to say, "Interracial dating is wonderful! And anybody that doesn't think so is racist!" Frankly, I think that it is difficult for any white person to get away with saying anything else.
But interracial dating affects different groups differently. It represents greater opportunity for some people, while representing a threat to others (black women, Asian men). Asian women and white men are probably annoyed with whatever flack they get regarding their relationships, but I think that it is unreasonable for anybody to expect Asian men to be totally comfortable with the gender imbalance of interracial dating/marriage and with Asian women that consciously reject Asian men on the grounds of their race. In fact, I suspect that this group was created in part to provoke Asian men.
published by ANBM on Sun, 01/11/2009 - 23:13
Tracking the trend of angry Asian men
By Kevin Chong, CBCNews.ca
November 21, 2007
published by archive (not verified) on Sun, 01/04/2009 - 10:17
published by ANBM on Sat, 01/03/2009 - 01:20